On erections

I was listening to the radio yesterday. The host was discussing sexuality with a well known "expert" - a female. She was pointing out how important the ability to have an erection is to males - the radio host was a male and agreed with her (of course).

It's hard to define what it means to be a male but surely an erect cock is part of the definition.

No matter the size of it, an erection is important. Waking up during the night or in the early morning, when testosterone is at its highest is one of the pleasures of being a male - and may it last into older age!

There were times in my life when a stiff cock could cause embarrassment. Hiding an erection can be a problem for men - but I can only hope that others understand. The website Awkward Boners deals with this issue - maybe with a little bit of sympathy although I think those shown would be embarrassed.

When young and pre-pubescent, having a "stiffy" can be a source of amusement or embarrassment. It's all part of growing toward a mature sexuality.

Anyway, a man's erection is something to be celebrated - and maintained for as long as possible into older age. Thank God for Viagra, Cialis, Caverject and the like!

On wanking

I don't know why I felt so guilty about wanking! I started when I was about 11 or 12 - quite early when I read about the experience of others. I was still in primary school and must have been an early developer.

I was told about wanking by another boy - older than me. He obviously had some practice. He showed me how - and wasn't so impressed by the quality of my semen. It didn't take much practice on my own behalf to get the gist of it. First of all I simply rolled by penis between my two hands. After a while I realised, as all males do, that the best effect can be gained by holding the cock between the thumb and forefinger and moving the hand up and down. It was great.

I was then into a long period of wanking! Again, I can't understand the guilt about it. And, looking back, I can't understand how I didn't discuss my pass-time with others - they were doing the same. I sense that the younger generation of today may be somewhat more open about wanking - they are about sex and seem to take pics of everything and post them on Facebook!

Even when established in a very satisfying heterosexual relationship, longer periods away from vaginal sex brought me to wanking - all to great relief! I'm sure other married men do the same - but I don't hear about it.

Remembering teenage years

I went to a function at my former secondary school several nights ago. It was a pleasant affair.

Afterwards light snacks and drinks were served amid some good company. Then I wandered around. It was a wistful 30 minutes or so. There were memories of my early teenage years. I needed a pee so wandered into a toilet that was  familiar to me – updated but familiar. I could remember wanking there as a youngster – all those hormones flowing and constant erections! It was a few years before I was to enjoy vaginal sex. Still jacking off was a good preparation. I cannot believe that some males say that they didn’t/haven’t wanked. I don’t believe them.

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Well, I like my penis! Most males do! I really enjoy hetero sex but wanking isn't so bad either.

I like looking at other men naked and penis close-ups. I've discovered there are plenty of others like me.